I am aware that this is an ironic statement coming from a street artist- and yet it's one I've tried to consider from time to time. One of the reasons I've embraced a black and white esthetic is that stands out in contrast to the myriad of colors that many advertisers employ to grab your attention. I find this same sentiment to be true within social settings- especially when seeking romantic connection. The more you can genuinely shed desperation, the more you stand out.